It’s been a while since someone commented on me still being single and not having any children, but on Friday it was time again. I wasn’t really expecting to get that question so I just stuttered the same old things about not having found Mr Right yet. Besides that I like I like being single. It’s a full time job taking care of just myself. I could never be able to take care of a husband and babies. I’m just too egocentric… When I was done the person asking looked at me and said: “Nice speech, but why don’t you have a boyfriend or any kids?” Then I said something that it just hasn’t happened. It takes two to tango…
I know this person pretty well so I was quite surprise that he went on like this. Thinking about it now I feel kind of hurt. Am I lesser woman just because I’m single and don’t have any children? Why is it so important in society to be twosome?
1 comment:
Nothing wrong with being single, some are simply envious.It's quite liberating not having to answer to someone all the time, or constantly being compared with the saint that is your partner's mother. Whenever I look at my friends who have started nesting/breeding I feel quite priviliged to be free to travel, work, meet friends and arrange my days as I please. You should cjeck out this blog, you might enjoy it: http://vampus.blogspot.com/
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